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Meditations · Marcus Aurelius

IV. Spend not the remnant of thy days in thoughts and fancies

concerning other men, when it is not in relation to some common good,

when by it thou art hindered from some other better work.

That is, spend not thy time in thinking, what such a man doth,

and to what end: what he saith, and what he thinks,

and what he is about, and such other things or curiosities,

which make a man to rove and wander from the care and observation

of that part of himself, which is rational, and overruling.

See therefore in the whole series and connection of thy thoughts,

that thou be careful to prevent whatsoever is idle and impertinent:

but especially, whatsoever is curious and malicious: and thou must

use thyself to think only of such things, of which if a man upon

a sudden should ask thee, what it is that thou art now thinking,

thou mayest answer This, and That, freely and boldly, that so by thy

thoughts it may presently appear that in all thee is sincere,

and peaceable; as becometh one that is made for society, and regards

not pleasures, nor gives way to any voluptuous imaginations at all:

free from all contentiousness, envy, and suspicion, and from whatsoever

else thou wouldest blush to confess thy thoughts were set upon.

He that is such, is he surely that doth not put off to lay hold on

that which is best indeed, a very priest and minister of the gods,

well acquainted and in good correspondence with him especially that

is seated and placed within himself, as in a temple and sacrary:

to whom also he keeps and preserves himself unspotted by pleasure,

undaunted by pain; free from any manner of wrong, or contumely,

by himself offered unto himself: not capable of any evil from others:

a wrestler of the best sort, and for the highest prize, that he may

not be cast down by any passion or affection of his own; deeply dyed

and drenched in righteousness, embracing and accepting with his

whole heart whatsoever either happeneth or is allotted unto him.

One who not often, nor without some great necessity tending to

some public good, mindeth what any other, either speaks, or doth,

or purposeth: for those things only that are in his own power,

or that are truly his own, are the objects of his employments,

and his thoughts are ever taken up with those things, which of

the whole universe are by the fates or Providence destinated

and appropriated unto himself. Those things that are his own,

and in his own power, he himself takes order, for that they be good:

and as for those that happen unto him, he believes them to be so.

For that lot and portion which is assigned to every one,

as it is unavoidable and necessary, so is it always profitable.

He remembers besides that whatsoever partakes of reason,

is akin unto him, and that to care for all men generally,

is agreeing to the nature of a man: but as for honour and praise,

that they ought not generally to be admitted and accepted

of from all, but from such only, who live according to nature.

As for them that do not, what manner of men they be at home,

or abroad; day or night, how conditioned themselves with what manner

of conditions, or with men of what conditions they moil and pass

away the time together, he knoweth, and remembers right well,

he therefore regards not such praise and approbation, as proceeding

from them, who cannot like and approve themselves.